Italian Heritage Month: what it means to be Italian-American today
A look at what Italian-American identity has become,
and why the version we inherited is no longer enough.
There’s a photograph most Italian-American families have somewhere. A grandmother or great-grandfather, black and white, standing stiff for the camera. Behind them, if you know how to look, is a specific country: a mountain village in Molise, a fishing town in Sicily, a farming valley in Calabria. They left it, most of them, between 1880 and 1924. Four million of them, roughly. One of the largest voluntary migrations in human history.
The photograph is where most Italian-American families begin. It’s also, for many of us, where the story stops. The people in it become the whole idea of Italy — how Italy sounds, how it cooks, how it prays, how it holds together. The country they left is preserved in that image the way an insect is preserved in amber: intact, beautiful, and no longer alive.
October is Italian Heritage Month. It’s a good moment to ask what the heritage actually is.
Who they were, and what they left
The Italians who came to the United States in the great wave of migration were not, for the most part, from the Italy of Renaissance postcards. They came in successive waves — from Sicily and Calabria, yes, but also from Liguria and Tuscany, from the Veneto and Friuli, from villages across the peninsula that were poor, agricultural, and often barely touched by the young Italian state that had been unified only in 1861. Here in the Bay Area, in fact, the earliest and largest communities came from the north: Ligurian fishermen who settled North Beach, Lucchesi who opened restaurants and grocery stores, Venetians and Piedmontese who planted the vineyards of Napa and Sonoma. Many of these immigrants didn’t speak standard Italian at all. They spoke dialects so distinct from each other that a Sicilian and a Ligurian could not understand one another. What united them wasn’t a shared language but a shared exit.
They left because there was work missing at home. In the south, the economy had collapsed after unification; land was concentrated in the hands of a few families; cholera came in waves. In the north, small landholdings had been fragmented across generations until they could no longer feed the families that worked them; the Veneto in particular sent an extraordinary number of people abroad in the late nineteenth century, more per capita than almost any other Italian region. So people boarded ships and crossed. They arrived in New York, Boston, New Orleans, San Francisco, and started over — often in tenements, often in dangerous work, always at the bottom of a social ladder that had no rung for them yet.
What they found in America was hostility. Not the polite kind. Real hostility — the kind that comes with laws, and violence, and permission. In 1891, in New Orleans, a mob broke into a jail and lynched eleven Italian men who had just been acquitted of a crime. It remains one of the largest mass lynchings in American history. It was reported in the New York Times as reasonable. The Italian government protested; the United States eventually paid an indemnity; nothing much else changed.
For decades afterward, Italians in America were subjected to the persecutions and prejudices that all poor immigrant communities have faced throughout history — the same suspicion, the same slurs, the same daily reminders of being unwelcome. And here is the part that we, as a community, do not often say out loud: the same prejudices that Italians endured in America a century ago are today reserved by Italians for those who arrive in Italy. The Nigerian, the Bangladeshi, the Romanian, the Tunisian — they are told, in Italy today, exactly the kind of things Italians were told in America in 1910. It’s the same script, in a different language. This does not excuse anything that was done to Italians then. It does mean that migration and prejudice are not stories about specific villains; they’re stories about how societies behave when a poor stranger arrives, and about how quickly the once-persecuted can become the persecutor.
This is part of Italian-American heritage too, even if it’s uncomfortable. Especially if it’s uncomfortable.
Why the parade existed
For much of the twentieth century, October was the month of a specific parade, tied to a specific figure. It’s worth remembering why.
Italian Americans were granted Columbus Day in the aftermath of everything described above. It was, more than anything else, a recognition. A way for a community that had been treated as foreign to be told: you belong here. The parade was less about Columbus the person than about legitimacy the concept. It was a way of saying — publicly, in the streets — we are here, we contributed, we belong. For the grandparents and great-grandparents of many of today’s Italian Americans, this mattered. It’s easy to underestimate how much.
Today the symbolism has become more complicated, and honestly so. The colonization of the Americas that began in 1492 was catastrophic for the Indigenous peoples of two continents, whether or not Columbus himself understood what he was setting in motion. The movement to recognize Indigenous Peoples’ Day is a legitimate reckoning, and one that the Italian-American community has no reason to resist. The dignity of one community was never going to rest, in the long run, on a symbol that cost so much to another.
What has quietly taken shape instead is Italian Heritage Month — proclaimed by American presidents since 1989, celebrated in cities across the country every October. It is a broader thing than the parade ever was. It doesn’t rest on one person. It rests on a whole culture, a whole history, a whole living country.
The change is not a loss. It is a maturation. The identity outgrew the symbol.
The Italy that no longer exists
Here is the harder thing to say.
The Italy that our great-grandparents left doesn’t exist anymore. Not in the sense that any country doesn’t stay the same across a century — in a deeper sense. The rural, agricultural, dialect-speaking, church-centered, family-clustered Italy of 1910 has been almost entirely dismantled by the events of the intervening hundred years.
Consider what happened. The First World War killed hundreds of thousands of young Italian men. Fascism reorganized the country’s institutions and led it into a catastrophic Second World War. The postwar period brought the miracolo economico — a rapid industrialization that pulled millions of southerners north to work in the factories of Milan and Turin. Villages emptied. Fields were abandoned. The extended family, which had been the basic unit of Italian life for centuries, gave way to smaller households, more individual lives, more urban rhythms.
Then came the deeper changes. Italy today has one of the lowest birthrates in the world. Its population is aging faster than almost any other. The Catholic Church, once the center of daily life, has become a background presence for most Italians under fifty. Immigration has transformed Italian cities: about ten percent of the country’s residents are now foreign-born, and their children — often born and raised in Italy — are Italian in every way that matters, even if the legal system is still catching up. Italian food itself has changed. What passes for “Italian cuisine” in America — the red sauce, the meatballs, the fettuccine Alfredo — is largely an Italian-American invention. Most Italians in Italy have never eaten it.
The Italy that Italian Americans often carry in their minds, then, is a snapshot. A beautiful one, in many ways — full of love, full of specific memories of specific grandparents, full of things worth preserving in family. But it is also, increasingly, a fiction. And this creates a strange situation: many Italian Americans feel deeply connected to Italy while knowing almost nothing about Italy as it actually is today.
What Italian-American identity is becoming
The good news — and it is genuinely good news — is that Italian-American identity is changing too. Slowly, generation by generation.
The third and fourth and fifth generations of Italian Americans are no longer the ones fighting for legitimacy in America. That work was done by their grandparents. They are, instead, in a new position: they have the freedom, and increasingly the desire, to look back at Italy not as a lost homeland but as a living country they can rediscover. Many of them are learning the language. Many are visiting places their families came from. Some are pursuing citizenship. Some are staying longer, learning to read Italian newspapers, following Italian debates, watching Italian films that are not The Godfather.
This is a different relationship with Italian identity than the one their grandparents had. It’s not about proving they belong in America. It’s about reconnecting with a culture that has continued, in Italy, to grow.
Italian Heritage Month at its best is about this. Not the preservation of a nostalgic image, but the reunion with something living. The bisnonna’s village is still there, but so is the country that village is now part of — a country with a contemporary literature, a serious cinema, an evolving cuisine, a complicated politics, and a language that carries all of it forward. To claim heritage is not to freeze it. It is to keep it in motion.
What we try to do
At Istituto Italiano Scuola, this is more or less what we’ve set out to do. We are a non-profit Italian school in San Francisco, and one of the reasons we exist is to give the Italian-American community — and anyone else who is curious — a way back into the actual Italy, not the version stored in family memory or in tourist brochures.
We don’t teach the Italy of stereotypes. We don’t teach The Godfather Italy, or the Under the Tuscan Sun Italy, or the Italy where a grandmother spends every Sunday rolling pasta by hand while everyone else waits at a long table. We teach the country that exists — with its writers who are alive right now, its cities that have changed in the last twenty years, its arguments about immigration and climate and the future, its music that ranges from opera to trap, its food that is more regional and more contested than any Italian-American kitchen ever suggested.
For many of our students, especially those with Italian family roots, this is unfamiliar territory at first. The Italy they meet in our classes is not always the Italy they expected. Some of them find this disorienting; most of them find it a relief. The image they inherited, however loved, was static. What they discover is that behind the image there is a whole country, still going, still worth knowing.
Every year we award a Heritage Scholarship to someone who wants to make this journey — and, importantly, it isn’t limited to those with Italian ancestry. What we look for is genuine connection: a family history, a cultural love, an intellectual pull toward Italy, a life circumstance that brought Italian into it. Heritage, for us, isn’t a bloodline. It’s a relationship — and anyone who wants to build one is welcome to apply.
The scholarship is made possible each year by the Riccio Grant, awarded to us by Italian Community Services. Their support is the reason this program exists, and it’s a good example of the kind of quiet, sustained community work that keeps Italian culture alive in San Francisco far beyond any single month of the year.
What to do with October
If October is your month — if you are Italian-American, or if you married into an Italian family, or if you simply love Italy — the best thing you can do this month is not celebrate a version of Italy that no longer exists.
Read a contemporary Italian novel. Watch a film by Alice Rohrwacher or Paolo Sorrentino. Listen to an Italian podcast about something other than food. Have a conversation with an Italian who is under forty. Learn ten words of the language you didn’t know last month. Ask your family where, exactly, they came from — the village, not the region — and then look up what that village looks like today.
Or: if you’ve been thinking about it for a while, take our free level test and see where you’d start. Classes meet once a week for two hours, online or in North Beach.
There’s nothing wrong with the photograph in the drawer. It’s part of the story. But the story didn’t stop when the ship arrived. It kept going, on both sides of the ocean. Italian Heritage Month is a good time to catch up with the part of it that’s still being written.
Buon Italian Heritage Month.
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